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How Do I Record Major Life Events So They Are Not Forgotten?

By Joshua S. Brogley · August 17, 2026

Part of the series The Six Kinds of Life Events Worth Writing Down

Use a template, and use it the same week. Date, what happened, who was there, what it changed in you, and one line to your future self. Free-writing about a big event produces three pages the first time and nothing the second; a template produces a comparable record every time. Lifetime Blueprint has thirty life-event templates across six categories, births, losses, moves, career, health, faith, so the moments that shape a life get recorded in a form you can read across decades.

Memory rewrites; paper does not

You will not remember what you felt the week your father died or the day the job ended. You will remember a story about it. A dated template, filled that week, keeps the original.

The template beats the essay

A structure asks the same five questions of every event, so a birth in your twenties and a loss in your fifties are recorded in a comparable shape. That is what lets you read them together later, and it is why the Blueprint uses templates instead of blank pages.

Six categories, thirty pages

Family, loss, home, work, health, faith. Enough slots for a full life, laid out next to the decade reflections so an event and its decade sit in the same book. The event pages are where the numbers on the domain scores get their explanation.

One line to the future

Every template ends by asking what you would tell your future self about this. Ten of those lines across a life is a letter you did not know you were writing. Related: planning and reviewing by decades.

Read every entry three times

The single most useful rule in the events section is drawn as three boxes with arrows: the week of, write what happened; one year later, read it and add what you see; five years later, read it again and add again. Three readings of one event show something a single writing never can, because the first entry is closest to the truth of how it felt and the later ones are closest to the truth of what it meant. The same page sets the other rules: date both the event and the writing, since they will often be years apart; write within a week if you can, and if you cannot, a backfilled entry marked as a memory is worth far more than a blank page; and one template can hold many events, a second child, a second home, written in sequence on the same pages. Before the templates, a table called What Counts as Major gives the test: would the course of your life be meaningfully different if this had not happened?

Lifetime Blueprint

A guided journal built for the long arc of a life: eight domains, seven decades, twelve snapshots, eleven letters, one record honest enough to be inherited.

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Which life events should I record?

The ones that changed you: births, deaths, marriages, moves, career turns, serious illness, faith shifts. Not the calendar. The Blueprint’s thirty templates cover the categories most lives pass through.

Should I record bad events too?

Especially those. The Blueprint’s decade scoring shows again and again that hard events score differently at the end of a decade than during it. Recording them honestly is what makes the record worth inheriting.

written by the author, at the kitchen table, after work.